Follow the Leader (But Not Too Closely)

 Does LinkedIn need another trans man's perspective on navigating the professional world? Based on what comes down in my feed every single day...yes. Today, with it being Trans Day of Remembrance, I am once again forced to reflect on the complexities of navigating the professional world as an out and proud trans man.  It is not overly dramatic so say that existing as a trans person is a constant balancing act. A daily performance where I'm expected to justify my existence at every turn. In my career, I've often found myself in situations where my analytical mind and strategic thinking are lauded, but my identity as a trans man is met with (mainly) confusion. How am I supposed to happily exist in a world where my intelligence and capabilities are conditional upon my adherence to outdated gender norms? Many of my colleagues probably can't understand the pressure that comes with misgendering, questioning glances, and dismissive comments. Though I do recognize that many of

Now that we've passed election day, my peers and colleagues should not be surprised to hear that I'm taking inspiration in finding my place in a changing landscape from classic country music. The title of this post comes from the Johnny Russell hit "Rednecks, White Socks, and Blue Ribbon Beer". If you're not familiar with the song, make sure to check it out (below) before reading the rest of this post.  It's certainly a strange time to be a diverse business professional working on LGBTQ+ business research in a state that often feels like it's stuck in a time warp. I've heard rude comments, snide remarks, and been exposed to outright hostility. "Why don't you just move to a blue state?" is a common refrain among people in my community. My answer is simple: Florida is my home. This is where my family (by blood and chosen) is, where my friends are, and where I've spent a long time building my life. This is a place with a rich history, a