There's No Place That I'd Rather Be Than Right Here

Now that we've passed election day, my peers and colleagues should not be surprised to hear that I'm taking inspiration in finding my place in a changing landscape from classic country music. The title of this post comes from the Johnny Russell hit "Rednecks, White Socks, and Blue Ribbon Beer". If you're not familiar with the song, make sure to check it out (below) before reading the rest of this post. 

It's certainly a strange time to be a diverse business professional working on LGBTQ+ business research in a state that often feels like it's stuck in a time warp. I've heard rude comments, snide remarks, and been exposed to outright hostility. "Why don't you just move to a blue state?" is a common refrain among people in my community.

My answer is simple: Florida is my home. This is where my family (by blood and chosen) is, where my friends are, and where I've spent a long time building my life. This is a place with a rich history, a vibrant culture, and a deep sense of community. And while some of my peers may not be able to see it, this is also a place where progress is possible.

I've lived here long enough to see the changes firsthand. Despite what is happening with our state and federal government, more and more business are becoming inclusive. Just as more and more people are speaking out against discrimination. Even here in Florida, politically minded people know that diversity is not just a buzzword. It's a necessity.

Of course there are still challenges. There will always be those who cling to outdated beliefs and harmful stereotypes. However, I refuse to let the negative ideals of others define the experiences of me or my community. 

As I've said countless times outside of gay bars and music venues to friends reeling from harmful comments, "There is no one here that is worth crying about."

Even though it's the harder road to take, I choose to focus on the positive. I made the choice to celebrate the resilience of the people who call Florida home. Choosing to fight for a future where everyone can live their lives with dignity and respect is a heavy burden. But it is the right thing to do in the complex world that we all exist in.

So, to everyone tempted to tell me to leave, I say this: I'm not going anywhere. I'm here to stay, and I'm here to make a difference.

And as Johnny Russell would say, "There's no place I'd rather be than right here."